There’s nothing in this world quite like the magic of making up after a fight with your girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband or even your lover.Fighting with someone you love, no matter how small or big the issue, can be very disrupting to your life.It can be next to impossible to try and get things done when you are in the midst of a fight.

 **Every time I have a fight with my boyfriend I can’t eat, 

sleep or concentrate on my work properly.

I feel angry, hurt & say things I do not mean, 

that’s why I love making up after a fight as soon as the anger subsides.My partner is doin' the same way; when we calm down, whoever is to blame is the one who apologizes first. 

This is the way we can start talking, forget the pain & easily get over the fight and make our relationship healthier than ever before.  Its the perfect time to bring the romance straight back to our relationship. :) Based on my personal experience, there are some things that I can do to let my partner remember how much I love him.

 

Fighting with your mate can be very stressful. If not dealt with properly, fights can cause deep rooted bitterness. You chose your mate because you wanted to spend the rest of your life with him. Your dream was a life of joy, adventure and happiness with her. Fighting with your mate can definitely hinder that dream. All couples fight occasionally, but it's how we deal with those fights that make the difference in a healthy relationship.

 Ive read lots of articles, tips kung pano ihandle when you're into it, Ive gathered some and come up to this :

 Choose to forgive. Choose to forgive for everything you feel he has done to hurt you. Usually an argument brings emotions and memories of PAST INCIDENTS to mind. :( (tama diba???) Forgiveness is a choice. Some of the negative emotions may remain, but by choosing to forgive you have started the process of neutralizing the situation.

Speak softly and calmly. In order to stop a fight with your mate you will need to resist the urge to raise your voice or yell. (pero mahirap to teh promise!) Stop, think, and make a conscience decision to speak softly. It's not easy, but this is one of the best ways to stop a fight with your mate.

  

  

Express something positive. When it becomes obvious a fight is brewing, instead of saying the first negative thing that comes to mind, try to say something positive. It's usually very difficult to find  something positive to say when you're on the verge of a fight, but if nothing else comes to mind tamang, "I love you." is enough!  (sincere teh ha?)

** ur heart will swell with love as soon as ul hear it, and almost immediately, everything will be forgiven. :) 

Walk away. Sometimes leaving the room

 is the only way to stop a fight with your mate. 

This will give both of you time to calm down. But for some lalong nakakaimbyerna! ikaw ba? saken EKIS to! :)

Think about why you love your mate. Begin to meditate or think about your mate's positive attributes. This might be difficult in the heat of the moment, but if you think about why you fell in love with her in the first place, the reasons for your fight may not seem so important. ** siguro after walking away this may help.

Go back and make up. After you've both had a few moments to cool down, return to your mate. Approach him with a loving attitude, a hug and an apology. Your mate may still be resistant, but keep reassuring her that you love her. ( oo! ganun tlga mga babae! :) pakipot ba!) pero gusto nila un! Controlling an argument is never easy, but the rewards will be great if you can stop a fight with yourmate.Remember, making up is the best part! **isang malaking tsek!!!

 **These tips may sound easy, but when you're in the middle of a fight ang hirap talagang iapply! kaloka! . But atleast this serves as a guide to us. Let's control our ego and pride in order to stop a fight with our mate. Putting our mate's needs above our own is the best way to bringing peace in your relationship.  All couples fight naman occasionally, but it's how we deal with those fights that make the difference in a healthy relationship. 

I hope you guys find this useful. I've come up to making this, ksi we had the same scenario last night. But things went well after. Hanggang sa muli. ;)